Dominate

control manage direct lead rule command influence domineer handle dictate sway reign head run subject subjugate prevail boss tyrannize predominate overshadow eclipse outshine overrule monopolize prevail over run the show have upper hand hold sway over lay down the law call the shots have one’s way rule the roost keep under thumb lead by the nose play first fiddle sit on top of preponderate superabound overbear detract from